One of the reasons why people get so sentimental, it is because, memories are the only things that don’t change when everything else does. There are things in life that you can’t hold on forever no matter how much you fight for it. Sometimes, destiny is not always good. It becomes playful. When you met someone, you learned to love, you thought that it was destiny who made your paths cross. But what if making your paths cross is just a part of the game that the playful destiny creates?
Making you realize in the end that the person you thought that was destined for you was not really meant to stay, but only destined to make you feel love and leave you when you have already fallen. It is not easy to state a reason when you decide to leave your love. Some might think it’s just an excuse. Some might not actually believe. Some will blame you. Some might even mad at you. What they don’t see is the fact that, it hurts you even more to hurt someone who doesn’t deserve to be hurt. Especially when you can’t actually state the reason why you have to leave.
You can never own something that was never yours, so let us stop gripping on things we expect to last forever. Nothing lasts forever. Forever is a lie. Everything is transitory. So while you have something in your hand, put in mind that it is just borrowed, so that someday, when it is gone, it won’t take you eternity just to let it go. When your feelings get strong for someone, it is always wise to stop fo a while and give your heart a time to breathe. A time to use your mind weigh the situation based on reason not on emotion.
Because the saddest thing that can happen is, when one fall in love while the other wants nothing more than friendship. Love can sometimes be magic, but magic can sometimes be an illusion. There are times when I wish that I was limited to certain emotions so that I will never have experience pain. Never feel betrayed or disappointed, and never get my fragile heart broken. But the same thing means that I will never know how it feels to love and be loved in return. the thought of it kind of scares me. To have a heart that is whole but numb, or a heart that is broken but real.
Someday, we will all be looking back to those days we learned to love, get hurt, cry and fight. Maybe when that time comes, we will be laughing at our old sumb selves realizing how stupid we were to stand up for things we knew weren’t really meant for us. But I guess, learning takes time, and mistakes makes one journey fun. Life is what we make it. Love makes the world go round. So let us live, love and take whatever pain it brings. Though it is hard to wait around for something that I know will never happen. It’s harder to stop when I know it is everything I have always wanted.